36 Bucks and My Affinity for Legwarmers

Last night I decided to be a good girl and actually cross something off my list. I wanted to do laundry, but my neighbors apparently had the same idea. So instead I rallied my spirits tolerably and did my taxes! I am getting a whole $36 back from the feds. WOOT! That is so much better than owing. It’s only enough to eat out at a moderately priced restaurant, and that’s only if I don’t spring for drinks or dessert, but still! And since I’m incapable of truly focusing, I simultaneously wrote a list of reasons I love the 80s, listened to Regina Spektor, and tried to decipher what she was saying in Russian. Well, I don’t technically speak Russian, but I did watch La Femme Nikita this weekend so I thought maybe I learned some through osmosis. Heh.

The 80s are awesome for a lot of reasons. Based on the Pink Fairy’s recent viewing of Pretty in Pink, I think at least she agrees too! Here are a few of my reasons for every year:

  • 1980: Fame, the movie musical, was released. I grew up dancing so how could I have accessorized properly without legwarmers?
  • 1981: The year of my birth and the same year all my totally rad friends were born.
  • 1982: Cheers popularized the neighborhood bar as a suitable place for a cast of characters to hangout.
  • 1983: Flashdance hit the screen and made all welding ballerinas feel like they had a place in the world. It was Hollywood’s answer to women doing a traditionally male job–Adrian Lyne had to make her a girlie dancer. Also, Michael Jackson’s Thriller was released. When I was a kid my parents had to buy two copies because I wore out their first tape.
  • 1984: Torvill and Dean won the gold medal at the 1984 Sarajevo Winter Games. My brother was also born this year, thus marking the beginning of our lifelong rivalry.
  • 1985: The Sure Thing and Desperately Seeking Susan came out. These are two of my all time favorite movies. The Sure Thing was filmed at my mom’s university and it was cool to take a little walking tour of it after seeing it. Desperately Seeking Susan, by Susan Seidelman, is notably one of the first female directed independent films. It’s a female buddy movie, and that’s still a seriously lacking genre.
  • 1986: New Kids on the Block hit the street…It was an embarrassing time for us all. Enough said.
  • 1987: My Two Dadswas on TV and influenced me to beg my mom for a transparent Guess phone with a hot pink neon triangle.
  • 1988: Roxette’s Look Sharp! came out. I remember seeing them on MTV and I got my little second-grade allowance and bought my very first tape.
  • 1989: Madonna’s Like a Prayer album hit the charts. The song and video, rife with religiosity, was probably the first time I could put the First Amendment in any sort of context.
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Time Flies

It’s Sunday!  How did that happen?

I had Friday off and I had a blast!  I watched some TV on DVD with a friend, met up with another for coffee, did some shopping at Sephora.  It was my idea of perfection, really.  On Saturday the BF and I went to get his and her haircuts, cleaned the flat, and went out to a well deserved dinner.

But now it’s Sunday and short of redoing the layout on this little diary, I haven’t done much.  And I can’t take all the credit for that either.  (The BF installed K2 and my graphic vampirate made the header.  Isn’t it gorgeous?)  I chatted with friends and talked about doing taxes, but as of yet no numbers have been crunched.  Laundry is overflowing, and I have a bunch of writing projects I’d like to work on, and of course I’d love to cook or work-out or do something that makes me feel less blob-like!

I know it happens to the best of us—shoddy time management—but what can we do to change that?  I’ve always been fond of lists, but I’m terrible at keeping my calendars up to date.  I like planners, but they get heavy and I find they just become a receptacle for receipts and scraps of paper wadded up with gum.  I sometimes use index cards to write down my tasks—there is something thrilling about ripping them in half when I’ve accomplished everything listed on them.

You’d think as a professional Friday I’d have a method to my madness, but often I realize I seem to thrive on my chaotic mess.  I can’t do one thing at a time; I must do eight.  I watch TV, chat, listen to music, and work on projects simultaneously.

How do you manage your time?  Girl Friday is open to suggestions.

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What I Did on my Spring Break

Just kidding. I don’t get a spring break! I’m stuck in the working world, but we do get Friday off! Thank you, Cesar Chavez!

If I had a mini break right now I’d probably do something boring like figure out how to order new blinds for the flat or get new curtains. My parents are going to be visiting soon and I feel bad that the place looks almost exactly the same way it did (minus the boxes) in November. I might do some spring cleaning—that nook in the hallway is just as crammed as ever. My hopes that Miss Tidy Pants would rub off on me in my personal organizational habits has since been dashed.

If I had money I’d go visit YOU. We could hang out and watch movies—I’m in love with classics! (And if that’s not your cuppa, I’m always up for TeeVee!) We could pretend to cook—I promised to make candy sushi with Lucky 10-Key and I swear I’m going to learn something vegan/veggie on the off chance I need to impress! I’d probably meddle in your personal life—something else I’m quite obsessed with—until you got sick of me or finally just gave in. Where Girl Friday is concerned, resistance is futile!

So, I pose a question to you my dear friendlies…if you had the time and a reasonable amount of money, what would you do for Spring Break?

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